Well, I'm not speaking of my own experiences. Never really had an ex-ex-boyfriend (had some flirts, but nothing really serious). But my sister has.
And he's being a real pain in the ass.
They had a relationship for almost two years, but my sister always had the impression he wasn't being honest with her. I never trusted him, though...
Anyway, a few weeks ago she discoverd the nasty truth. He had been lying and cheating all along, acting like the bastard he is. So my sister kicked him out. With me cheering her along. Fi-na-lly he was gone!!!
Well, no such luck. Now he keeps sending her text-messages. Acting like a total innocent. Keeps her asking why she is so mad at him. Stupid asshole!
So, my question to you: Did you ever had a really irritating ex? How did you handle the situation? Did he/she came crawling back?
Cheers,
Andi
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Oh boy ex boyfriends! I've had a few try to come back. But by the time they realized they wanted to be with me, I had put enough distance between us to realize why I'm lucky we split. Sounds like your sister's in the same boat.
Either I tell them I'm seeing somebody else, or I flat out say go away and never come back. That does the trick with my exes anyway.
Oh ya, I came back by to tell you I tagged you for an Image MeMe, but this post caught my eye first.
I saw the tag, thanks ;-)
And the ex is finally leaving my sister alone. There was one last episode where he followed her with his car, but after that, she didn't see or hear him anymore. Good riddance, I say.
By the way, she met a new nice guy, apparently a total sweetheart!
Cheers,
Andi ;-)
Oh I this is me. This sounds like me. And the bad thing too is that he blimey talks to my sisters and close family members via facebook asking about me and how I am doing aaalll the time and it gets on my nerves as I can't seem to just stop my sisters from talking to whom they want. I met him online about two years ago and and felt intrigued because we shared similar interests and I was so drawn to this man, and in my eyes he was very much perfect for who he was and so I also appreciated him in every single way. So we hit it on as good friends for a year until we finally just decided to date within a year later. Big Mistake!!! Things seemed pretty well at first, but as I told him of my past mistakes in the past two relationships I have had, he crucified me for all of my mistakes. He also seemed to overanalyze small arguements, or misjudge me for general bad habits or mistakes to a point where I found myself crying and I felt humiliated. He would even think I was cheating on him and thought I was looking at men when I wasn't. Even went to extremes that he pushed me away saying I smelt like semen when I didn't and had not slept with anyone at all. He in fact did this all the way until my pregnancy ended prematurely and even before that he thought the baby was not his so I remember being bitter for not enjoying my pregnancy. I felt like he was controlling and manipulative. When I finally took control of my life in despite that things for me were so terrible, I got rid of facebook because this bastard hacked into my emails and facebook page, bank account and knew how much money I had in my bank accounts, whom I was talking to, and at times felt like he watched me during the night. Figures thats what I get for dating someone who is good at computer hacking. When I walked away from the relationship, he kept talking to my sisters, cousins, etc saying awful things of me and insisting that he loved me, he kept calling my close friend in Arizona and kept sending me emails. I one day tried giving it a shot but I kept a wall up at that time because I was not willing to fall into that same game again of verbal abuse and him not knowing what he wants playing a game of tug of war of I want you, I dont because I dont know what i want. I did find out he was talking to other women while with me. And I don't mean his normal friends of the opposite sex but girls with whom he would randomly flirted with all the time while in the relationship. To this day, I still have to hear my sisters tell after almost two years now that he keeps asking for me over and over again. I hate it. I hate that I have to tolerate it. It bothers me so much because one thing is of a relationship ending amicably and another is a relationship ending horribly because there was mental and verbal abuse. It did however make me a bit stronger in all areas of my life, and not to mention it felt like I had a lot of weight taken away from me and before long I was the same happy girl... but never did I think that the consequences of ending the relationship would mean he would bug me through third parties or even those close to me. My worst nightmare out of this is to bring my new boyfriend or husband one day to a family function and have to give an explanation to my new boyfriend or husband of why my family and friends are still talking to this idiot. My sisters however have made at least a little compromise with me that when my name comes up, that they not talk or say anything at all of me. I did have AT and T block his number so its worked like a charm. As far as everything else he can hack into, in terms of what I search for online, look at online, buy, money in the bank account, pictures, etc, theres nothing much I can do =(
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